Newsletter: Fall Update

Dear Friends,

As we transition from the summer season into the cooler days of fall, we wanted to share some exciting updates and express our gratitude for your continued support. We’ve had a busy, exciting summer, steadily expanding our services, our team, and our impact!

We could not do this work without you and our community partners. As we grow to reach more youth, educate more parents, and serve more survivors and their families – you are helping us make a difference.

We believe in the strength of our community to bring awareness and prevention to sexual abuse and human trafficking and to create a safe and nurturing environment for all. Thank you for being a part of our mission, and together, let’s continue to be advocates for those who need our services the most.

 With gratitude,

Amber Clayborne, Founder

SUMMER HIGHLIGHTS

Family Living Center

We continued our monthly workshops at the Family Living Center. Our groups centered around critical topics such as parenting, modeling consent and holding boundaries with family and community members. We are happy to provide childcare during our groups so that parents and caregivers are able to show up. Our sessions are pivotal in ensuring the safety and well-being of our children, and we’re grateful for the Family Life Center’s dedication to facilitating these sessions.

The Jackie Joyner-Kersee Center

ounder Amber Clayborne had the privilege of presenting a Child Sexual Abuse Prevention training to staff at the Jackie Joyner-Kersee Center in East St. Louis. We highlighted key policies, shedding light on the critical importance of safeguarding our children. We are so thankful for organizations like the Jackie Joyner-Kersee Center. Their engagement not only reflects their genuine care for our community, but also exemplifies their strong commitment to fostering community connections and ensuring protection for all.

CSA prevention training at Jackie Joyner Kersee Center

Mental Health Fair

This summer we also tabled at the Mental Health Fair at the East St. Louis public library through a collaborative effort between Chestnut Health System and COFI (Community Organizing and Family Issues). It was a fantastic opportunity to promote prevention and education within our community and connect with other agencies supporting mental health like CASA, Brightpoint, and Hoyleton. We are thrilled to have been part of this event. 

Back to School Events

In August, our Youth and Family Counselor, Hannah Rosenthal, tabled at the Cahokia School District’s back to school event, engaging with at least 50 parents to discuss Kerengende Foundation’s offerings and the services we will be providing to the district this fall. We are excited to build meaningful relationships with parents and students this school year! 

We also had the privilege of participating in the Jackie Joyner Kersee Center Back to School event, where we engaged with over 400 families! Amber distributed 300 booklets highlighting child sexual abuse risk factors and prevention strategies while sparking lively conversations with families about parenting, consent, and boundaries. 

amber clayborne staffing the kerengende table at the jackie joyner kersee center


Your Support, Our Gratitude: A Huge Thank You to the Church of Latter-Day Saints in O’Fallon

exploring my strengths workbook

We would like to extend our deepest appreciation to the Church of Latter-Day Saints in O’Fallon, Illinois, for their incredible dedication and generosity. In a remarkable service opportunity, they rallied together and assembled over 360 binders full of materials and activities that will empower and educate youth through our Healthy Relationships workshops in the Cahokia school district. We are also grateful for their incredible donation for SOS kits to support our youth with basic supplies when in need. On behalf of our community, thank you for your generosity! 


Case Management Services Update:

We are proud to share that we have continued to provide case management and advocacy services to youth who have been impacted by human trafficking and sexual abuse and plan to grow these services this school year. Our services encompass a range of vital components, all aimed at helping survivors regain their sense of agency, security, and hope.

Our Youth and Family Counselor, Hannah, provides psychoeducation and coaching support on topics such as:

  • Healthy relationships (e.g., boundaries, consent, and safe touch), positive decision-making, stress, trauma, and emotion regulation
  • Development of skills in self-advocacy, effective communication, conflict resolution, and stress management 
  • Guidance with goal-setting and future planning, as well as help building executive functioning and life skills
  • Support with growing positive self-esteem and increasing confidence in strengths and abilities

Our doors are always open. If you know of anyone who requires our support or if you have any questions regarding our case management services, please do not hesitate to reach out. We believe that every child deserves to live in a safe and nurturing environment, and we are here to make that a reality. Please contact Amber via our Contact Form.


Upcoming Programs and Events:

Educate, Empower, Protect – Healthy Relationships Workshops for Students

We are excited to announce our first major school district partnership with Cahokia School District #187! Beginning this fall, we brought our Healthy Relationships 7-week curriculum (Educate, Empower, Protect) to Cahokia middle schools to highlight self-esteem, communication, healthy behaviors, and red flags in relationships, as well as sexual abuse and human trafficking prevention.

This partnership will enable us to reach a larger number of schools and students, equipping them with valuable skills for their relationships. With engaging discussions, interactive activities, and valuable resources, we aim to empower students with skills that will serve them well as they cultivate and experience relationships. We believe that by fostering healthy connections among our youth, we can create a safer environment and reduce the risk of sexual abuse and human trafficking.

Elyssa Choi, Mikayla Duncan and Amber Clayborne at Wirth Middle School in Cahokia, Illinois

Non-Offending Caregiver Support Group:

This fall, we are kicking off another Non-Offending Caregiver Support Group to provide a safe space for parents and caregivers of children who have experienced sexual abuse to share, heal, and connect. Our support groups are led by Marilyn Holmes, LCPC ATR-BC.

We have spaces available and would love to have you join. If you are seeking support, this group will give you a compassionate community, expert guidance, and a safe and confidential environment. If you are interested in joining or have a referral, contact Amber via our Contact Form.


Staff Updates:

We are excited to welcome Elyssa Choi to the Kerengende Team! Elyssa joins us through the AmeriCorps Vista program.

Vistas build capacity in nonprofit organizations and public agencies by helping them more effectively generate the commitment of private sector resources, encourage volunteer service at the local level, and empower individuals and communities.

Elyssa will conduct research, community outreach and assist with developing partnerships with local community based organizations.

elyssa choi

marilyn holmes

Join Us In Congratulating Marilyn!

We are thrilled to congratulate Marilyn Holmes, LCPC, ATR-BC, on her recent passing of her final counseling licensure exam in Illinois! With this success, she now becomes a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. Marilyn, your dedication and hard work have paid off, and we celebrate your well-deserved success!

Marilyn has been an integral part of the Kerengende family supporting parents, youth and the growth of our agency!  We are truly fortunate to have Marilyn as part of our team, and we look forward to her continued contributions in making a positive impact on our community.


Additional Highlights

New Office & Resources:

We have a new office! We have moved into a beautiful space at 1 S. Church St, Suite 501 in Belleville, Illinois. Our direct services will still take place at our location in West Belleville, while these offices will host our administrative services and meetings.

Are you interested in talking with your kiddos about body safety and consent but don’t know where to start? We offer valuable resources to assist you in this important conversation.

Simply reach out to us to schedule an appointment and pick up some carefully vetted and reliable body safety and consent books that can serve as helpful tools to start meaningful discussions with your kids.

Partner With Us On Trainings: 

Prevention education is vital to stop sexual abuse and human trafficking in our community. We are dedicated and committed to teach the warning signs, spark conversation, and empower youth and families. To do this, we partner with YOU. 

As Darkness to Light certified facilitators, we can bring a Child Sexual Abuse Prevention training to where you are. Kerengende Foundation teaches schools, community centers, churches, and youth-serving organizations on how to protect children.

If you think your organization, church, or group could benefit from one of our trainings, please reach out to Amber using our contact form.

Donate:

Your generosity empowers us to extend our reach, educate our community, and provide critical support to survivors and their families.

Together, we can work towards a world where everyone lives free from the fear of abuse and violence.

Amazon Wishlist: Make a direct impact by selecting and donating essential items.

Online Donation: You can also make a monetary donation securely through our website. Your financial support helps us continue our mission by providing online workshops, community education, and direct support to survivors and their families.

Thank you for being an essential part of our mission. Your support means the world to us.

Newsletter: February Update

Dear Friends,

As we reflect on the milestones of the past year and look ahead to the opportunities that 2024 holds, I am inspired by the resilience and compassion that define our community. 

The impact, program, and organizational updates we share below reflect the tangible results of our collective efforts. Your support isn’t just a donation; it’s a lifeline for those regaining their voice and their power.

To keep this lifeline going, the Kerengende Foundation is hiring for a Community Educator role! Click here to learn more. If you or someone you know is passionate about community outreach and education and meets the qualifications- please submit a cover letter and resume addressed to Amber Clayborne at amber.clayborne@kerengendefoundation.org

Thank you for your partnership as we continue to educate and protect our youth and champion the rights and dignity of every survivor.

 With gratitude,

Amber Clayborne, Founder

Black History Month

We know that historically, Black women and children have been disproportionately affected by sexual violence. This is why Kerengende is called to serve. In recognition of Black History Month, we will be celebrating notable Black women, both past and present, on social media throughout the month. Please follow along on Instagram and Facebook.  During Black History Month, and the entire year, we seek to address the gap in access to care. That’s why we work predominantly in Black and Brown communities, empowering women and children with education and resources to respond to and ultimately prevent sexual violence. Thank you for standing with us in this work. 


2022-2023 Impact

We are excited to share highlights of our impact from 2022-2023! These results speak to our progress in fulfilling our vision to strengthen communities, decrease sexual offenses and human trafficking, and educate youth to stay aware of their safety and that of their peers.

Overall Results

  • In the past two years we doubled the number of individuals we reached through our programming, from 500 to over 1,000. 
  • We nearly doubled our program offerings from 20 workshops and community education events in 2022 to 37 in 2023.

Case Management, Advocacy, and Support for Survivors and Families

  • We reached over 10 individuals and families through our case management and direct services programs in 2023. We have also offered family emergency support including rent payment, electricity payment, and clothes and supplies. 
  • Since launching our individualized intervention services, we have provided 72 sessions of direct counseling to survivors and of sexual abuse and sex trafficking and their families.

 2022-2023 Survey Highlights

Adult and Teen Workshops in the Community:

  • 96% of respondents agreed or strongly agreed that “this workshop increased my knowledge of child sexual abuse prevention.”
  • 95% of respondents agree or strongly agree that they would “recommend this workshop to others.”
  • 91% of respondents rate the overall quality of our workshops as excellent or good. 

Student Results

  • At the end of our pilot six-week Healthy Relationships program to female students at Wirth/Parks Middle School in Cahokia, Illinois, 97% of respondents said they know how to get help if someone is harming them or a friend.

Non-Offending Caregiver Support Groups: 

  • 100% of respondents in our pilot Non-offending Caregiver Support Group in 2023 reported that the support groups felt like a safe space, and 100% strongly agreed “I learned more about the impact that sexual abuse has on families.”

Program Updates

Healthy Relationships Workshops at Wirth/Parks Middle School

During the fall semester of 2023, Kerengende Foundation developed and expanded our curriculum to provide a comprehensive six-week healthy relationships course to 225 sixth-eighth grade girls at Wirth/Parks Middle School in Cahokia, IL. These bright young minds delved into essential topics such as self-esteem, communication, and healthy versus unhealthy relationships. They also learned to recognize red flags of grooming and sexual abuse, staying safe in online relationships, and understanding the dangers of human trafficking. 

Students at Wirth/Parks Middle School participating in our Healthy Relationships workshop

Photos Above: Students at Wirth/Parks Middle School participating in our Healthy Relationships workshop

“I would love to have more classes like this… Please come to Belleville next school year!”

Wirth/Parks Middle School student

Non-Offending Caregiver Support Group

Last month, we launched the second round of our Non-Offending Caregiver Support Group. Led by the compassionate and skilled facilitator Marilyn Holmes, LCPC, ATR-BC, this group provides a space for parents and caregivers whose children have experienced sexual abuse or human trafficking. Through the group, participants share experiences, gain insights, and foster a supportive community.

Bi-weekly sessions take place on Monday nights from 6:00 PM to 7:30 PM in Belleville, IL and are free of charge thanks to your support. We still have available spaces for those interested in participating! If you or someone you know would like to be a part of the Non-Offending Caregiver Support Group, please reach out to Marilyn Holmes at marilyn.holmes.j@gmail.com. 

Partnership with University of Guanajuato!

Photos Above: Aaron Joseph, Graphic Designer and Christina Oyebade, Illustrator of Chima Wants to Know about Boundaries, joined me for a virtual presentation with the students of Professor Ibarra’s class on the process of translating our materials.

Kerengende partnered with Catchafire and the University of Guanajuato in Mexico to have our materials translated into Spanish. Catchafire memberships are made possible through a partnership between Missouri Foundation for Health and the St. Louis Community Foundation. 

After tabling at the Latino Round Table’s Health Fair in Fairmount City last fall, we recognized a need to reach our local Spanish speaking communities. Through Catchafire, we partnered with  professor Eva Ibarra. Her class translated Kerengende Foundation’s sexual abuse prevention booklet, Chima Comic series, and community education materials. This translation broadens Kerengende’s impact as we can now increase the access to sexual abuse prevention services and materials to Spanish speaking communities. 

Upcoming

Virtual Workshop with Dr. Tyffani Dent 

On Thursday, March 21st at 11:00 am CT, Dr. Tiffani Dent will present Supporting Black Girls: Addressing Trauma Experiences on the Continuum

Research has demonstrated the failure of systems to provide needed supports for Black girls to be emotionally healthy. When Black girls experience trauma or engage in problematic decisions, system responses are often disproportionately harsh and do not meet their needs.

This presentation will explore research addressing biases against Black girls, system failures, and the role of intersectionality in meeting the needs of Black girls who have experienced and/or caused trauma.

Healthy Relationships Workshops with Chestnut Health This Spring

We are excited to collaborate with Chestnut Health System’s Pregnancy Prevention Program to facilitate lessons from our Healthy relationship curriculum to co-ed classrooms in Cahokia middle schools.  


Gratitude

Marillac Mission Fund – We are thrilled to share that we received a generous grant from Marillac Mission Fund (MMF) to provide Human Trafficking and Sexual Abuse Prevention and Support in St. Louis Metro East. This is our second grant from MMF, and we are grateful for MMF’s belief in our mission. We look forward to continuing our partnership as we work to strengthen our communities and decrease human trafficking and sexual offenses.

Spirit of St. Louis Women’s Fund – Thank you Spirit of St. Louis Women’s Fund for putting together 30 emergency SOS kits last month! We are excited to offer these bags stocked with clothes, hygiene kits and blankets to youth in transition in our communities.We would also like to thank The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints – O’Fallon Illinois Stake for the generous grant which made these kits possible.

We would also like to thank The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints – O’Fallon Illinois Stake for the generous grant which made these kits possible.

volunteers assembling SOS kits. there are clothes and plastic boxes on a table.
Volunteers from Spirit of St. Louis Women’s Fund assembling SOS kits. There is a pile of blue duffel bags.

Photos Above: Volunteers from Spirit of St. Louis Women’s Fund helped us assemble SOS kits. Thank you for your support!


Now Hiring:

As mentioned above, we are currently seeking a dedicated individual to join our team as Community Educator! Through this role, the Community Educator will work closely with the Executive Director to implement and expand our prevention and awareness programs. This position will present workshops and presentations pertaining to trauma prevention, healthy relationships, and Child Sexual Abuse Prevention to teens, adults, and community organizations. Click here to learn more about the details and requirements of this role.

If you or someone you know is passionate about community outreach and education and meets the qualifications for this role – please submit a cover letter and resume addressed to Amber Clayborne at


You can make an impact

Here are some things you can do to partner with us and take action against human trafficking: 

  • Make a Monetary Donation: Your monetary donation to Kerengende Foundation could provide a survivor access to therapy where they begin to heal, a workshop that teaches a vulnerable teen how to recognize the warning signs of trafficking in our region, or a support group for a parent learning to navigate life after abuse. 
  • Donate Supplies and Materials: As we grow to support more survivors and conduct more preventative workshops, we are always in need of in-kind donations! Toothbrushes, snacks, and personal hygiene items are always gratefully received by the clients we serve. If you are interested in donating in-kind, please contact us using our Contact Form.
  • Volunteer: Use your time and talents to educate your community and work to end child sexual abuse and human trafficking! If you are interested in our current volunteer opportunities, please contact us using our Contact Form.
  • Share Kerengende Foundation Posts on Social Media: Information leads to awareness and an aware community can create change! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram and invite your friends to do the same.

Thank you for continuing to partner with us as we work to create lasting change for our clients and our community.